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Practices That Actually Work

Anxious? Try grounding. Heartbroken? Try self-compassion. Overthinking? Try noting. The right practice for what you're feeling right now.

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InnerOS
Oct 17, 202410 min read
Practices That Actually Work

For Anxiety & Panic: Ground Yourself Fast

When you're anxious, panicking, or overwhelmed — these get you back to calm. Focus on your body and the present moment.

Grounding (5-4-3-2-1)

3 min | Beginner

Name 5 things you see, 4 you touch, 3 you hear, 2 you smell, 1 you taste. Returns awareness to present body.

Why it works: Interrupts anxious thinking by anchoring you in sensory experience. You can't spiral about the future while fully present in your body.

Box Breathing

5 min | Beginner

4-4-4-4 breath pattern (inhale 4, hold 4, exhale 4, hold 4). Calms your nervous system.

Why it works: Directly calms your nervous system. When you're in fight-or-flight mode, breath is the fastest reset.

Body Scan

10 min | Intermediate

Progressive awareness through each body part. Notice sensations without judgment, release held tension.

Why it works: When you feel disconnected from yourself, reconnecting with your body brings you back online.


For Heartbreak & Self-Criticism: Heal Your Heart

When you're heartbroken, lonely, or being too hard on yourself — these help you heal.

Loving-Kindness (Metta)

7 min | Intermediate

"May I be free from suffering. May I be at peace." Extend compassion to self, then others, then all beings.

Why it works: Activates your self-compassion circuit, allowing your heart to heal without needing external love first.

Self-Compassion Break

5 min | Beginner

Hand on heart. Three phrases: "This is suffering." "I'm not alone in this." "May I be kind to myself."

Why it works: Physical touch grounds the practice. These three phrases activate self-compassion, which research shows reduces anxiety and depression.

Grief Release Letter

10 min | Intermediate

Write unsent letter to person/situation. Express all feelings without filter. Then burn/delete (ritual completion).

Why it works: Grief held inside becomes toxic. Writing externalizes the pain, and the ritual of burning/deleting gives closure.


For Overthinking & Rumination: Quiet Your Mind

When you can't stop overthinking, ruminating, or your brain won't shut up — these help.

Noting Practice

5 min | Intermediate

Label mental phenomena as they arise: "Thinking" "Feeling" "Hearing" "Planning" "Remembering." No analysis, just noting.

Why it works: Creates space between you and your thoughts. When you label a thought, it loses its grip on you.

Mirror Gazing

7 min | Advanced

Gaze into own eyes (mirror or camera). Witness yourself without judgment. Notice what arises. Stay present.

Why it works: Looking into your own eyes creates a direct experience of self-awareness. You meet yourself.


Daily Practices: Morning & Evening

Start your day with clarity. End it with reflection.

Morning Intention

5 min | Daily

Check in with yourself. Notice how you're feeling. Set a conscious intention for how you want to move through today.

Why it works: Setting intention at day's start prevents reactive patterns. You lead your day instead of being led by it.

Evening Reflection

7 min | Daily

Review your day. What emotions came up? What triggered you? What patterns are you noticing? Extract the lessons.

Why it works: Pattern recognition requires reflection. Evening review helps you learn from your day and see what's repeating.


The Key Insight

The practice matters less than the match. A grounding exercise won't help heartbreak. Self-compassion won't stop a panic attack.

InnerOS matches the practice to your state. That's why it works.


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